The 1st August would have been my 10 year anniversary with my Ex, now 10 years is a long time and you may be thinking why I would bring this anniversary up when it no longer matters, I don’t want to speak to her or celebrate this day in any way but this doesn’t mean I didn’t think about the fact it would have been 10 years. Now I wouldn’t mind if you thought that I would be upset or bothered today with all the possible relevance but im not, in any way, at all. In fact im happy! (Yep that happy word again!)
Why? Well not total sure about that one, After speaking to many people over the last few months I remember someone saying it takes you half the time you spent with someone before you are over them. Now for me that doesn’t work as I don’t want to spend the next 5 years getting over someone but I don’t think this works for everyone as I feel like im over the relationship hurt, There was another saying I heard which I like better, there is no set time to get over someone, could be years could be days it all depends on you! Now that dose fit very well for me as I will say again I want to get on with my life and move on with it, the only thing I need to get over is selling my dam house, I know ‘if I put it on the market people will come’ and I know I need to be a little more patient but that’s what I want more than anything in the world
Now on to one of the reasons I feel so good especially on a day that I shouldn’t, I think we all know who im taking about! Which leads me smoothly on to the last weekend, So I trekked over to Liverpool to pick up the Girl im seeing and then back to Manchester to a birthday party for a friend which involved a BBQ and for me still to be alive righting this blog meant it was good, Back to mine for fun, laughs and drinks, I even treated her to breakfast in the morning, yes I know, Me! Spent the rest of Sunday chatting and listening to music (dam the Now albums, when media centre logs music it looks like you have a crap music selection as it lists artists names, crazy frog ect..) Now I know this doesn’t sound like an action packed weekend and it wasn’t but what a weekend, I really enjoyed my self and the company I was with and could do it every day but with 40 miles between us at the moment this is not a easy task, just seeing her some weeks is near to impossible but im like to think when it comes down to beating the impossible or not seeing her for a few week I could make the impossible possible any day of the week, its all about motivation!
So what dose the week have planned for me? Humm Drinks Wednesday night, not sure about Thursday night but im sure if I stay in the present mood I will be visiting Magull (Liverpool) or maybe Friday night, Saturday night is a 25th party at a old friends and Sunday the day of rest im unsure about. With all this new found fun and adventure its means im on the road more and more, Tue/wed I racked up 250 miles and over the weekend I just missed 200 miles but its all very very worth it and would keep driving if I had to. (motivation!)
Stay tuned!
